Monday, 22 March 2010


(gambar tak dak kaitan)

At last...we have finished discussing bout da suicide cases from rates, factors and ways to overcome. Marks have been taken and now I, Nurhidayu release dis blog from our BIUSS' discussion. ( Aragon's dialogue when he release da ghost army)

Yes! Yes! Yes! Whoa!!!! Now we can discuss anything....

To infinity and beyond!!!

(Buzz Lightyear from Toy Story)


~ Creating ideas for lives ~

Thursday, 11 March 2010

Conclusion To Our Research Question 3

Wow!!, a great opinion, statemant and review from my group mate. liza and Ayu, your work to overview my research question is good to me, i'm appreciate of that. Thank you so much. I'm also agreed with your all opinion that many way can overcome suicide among student.

Here i brought us one melody about suicide. From this song i made conclusion that people's who might suicide is lonely person. They don't have supporter in their life that help them working well on live.

"...My life is over
My death must occur
There is no hope
My heart is torn apart
My tears overflowing
How can I live ?
How can I die ?
How can I leave ?
Will I know that I've hurt them ?
Will I know how they feel ?
I feel sorrow for them
I feel sorrow for me..."

Poetry Excerpts From Depression And Thoughts Of Suicide; From Crisis To Cured, by Melody Clark

This song will haunted everybody who had trying to kill them self without thinking clearly. If someone says, I'm gonna to commit suicide", "I want to end it up or I want kill my self", what should we do?. thinking of that, we can't even ignored these statements. They might be words seeking for our help to get them out of the suicidal nightmare. So as a community we should care and alert about it.

In my opinion, people or student who make suicide is a lonely person. They don't have many friend and always to avoid near to society. However, we can't let them feel alone because they're struggling hard during that time. They're feeling extremely painful and depressed. Helping them change their life by cultivating positive values either via religious practice or in any forms that might help as Ayu says in her post.

Next, identify what they're struggling at, and be there ready to coach them, guide them, support them and teach them how to overcome their stressed and painful life. Teachers, counselors, school counselors, physicians, parents or even friends can all play a significant role to offer troubled, depresses and isolated people a place to go for reassurance.They should always be there to support to help what they need, but most importantly, to get them immiadiate attention to stop their negative thoughts from stirring up their desires to kill.

Based on research question, the best way to overcome suicide should be don't prejudice or discriminate them. But in a loving and non-prejudice way,we should share our concern with them. Besides that, tell them that how we are worried about them and encourage them to open up about what they're experiencing. we also must be patient to deal with them by believing that thing can change.

There have many reason why people making suicide that we are don't know about it, so we should think in their situation as a way to help them.

Wednesday, 10 March 2010



First of all,I want to apologize to both of you because I took a long period to post my part..I have some emergency tasks that must be settle down by last week..I'm sorry,friends..I'm sorry

OK...leave the sadness behind..
Before I go through with my part,I proud to praise my friends' job..
Well done guys!!!
Both of you really make me proud to become your group mate..Thank God because give me such good friends who done their work perfectly,on time and without any complaint...Thank you very much,friendsThank You..

Now I will proceed some information, my opinion and suggestion about how to overcome suicide among universities' students..

Based on the article written by James J Messina(,he wrote twelve suggestion to overcome suicide and besides the ways, he added some questions(most likely to questionnaire to that person who think suicide is the best way to solve their problems). The suggestions are simple and suitable for universities' students who are like to do the simple and save(cost,time and energy) things..

One of the way to overcome suicide suggested by James identify what distorted, irrational or unhealthy feelings are blocking your acceptance of these new healthier, more rational beliefs and keeping you from being more hopeful. Means that,as students,we must not keep thinking about our weakness or what we have done wrongly in the past. The past is the past,the future is not come yet..So, why we must waste this time we have?When we blocking our mind,then, we lost our sweet moment...don't easily take own live without try to improve own self..

In my opinion, universities' students should not waste the hope of parents...Our parents always pray for our success,but why we easily give up when our study not reach the target? All parents love their children and no parents want to see their children sadness. Then, why we let our parents cry because our stupid action(want to kill own self)?Our action start from our mind set.. Always think our self to give the best for family especially for parents..Do not take the short way to solve small problems.. Thumbs Up

Besides the article written by James(more to change the mind set),another suggestion to overcome suicide is by hypnosis..As mention early, one of the factor of suicide is stress.. Hypnosis is one of the way to overcome stress and at the same time can safe person who are want to commit suicide because when the problem of stress is solved, other problem can be solved too...For addition of information,we can do our own hypnosis without the hypnotherapist..This link( will tell more about this hypnosis..And for Muslims, the best hypnosis(or therapy) is when we do our prayer and ask Allah for the good ways to solve our worries and stress...yes

Finally,it's no use crying over spilt milk..Do not regret what we have done in the past but appreciate the present to improve the futureRaise The Roof 1..

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